Who I Can Best Guide:

Perhaps you are leaving high school or college and are wondering what your purpose is, where to go from here.

You're questioning—am I in the right job? Or deep down you dislike your job. Or don't have a job. But where to?

Or you’re entering a new phase of life due to a change in circumstance or life event.

Or, finally, maybe you'd like to change your path — a little or a lot — or even start a new life for yourself — but you don't quite know where to start.

Maybe some of these things will resonate:

DO you feel like others have everything figured out?

do wish you had a plan?

do you wish you had even some direction?

DO you find getting out of bed difficult sometimes because there really just isn’t anYthing inspiring you? or anything that exciting awaiting you each day?

OR do you feel a sense of anxiety too, that life is passing you by — that you’re missing out, or that you should have a plan, short- or long-term, but you don’t know or care or even want to?

do you feel like figuring out your purpose is basically impossible -- either because you enjoy lots of things or because nothing is really exciting?

If YOU’RE IN HIGH SCHOOL OR COLLEGE, DO you wish you had a MAJOR OR DIRECTION OR IDEA OF WHAT YOU WANT TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE? LIKE AT LEAST SOME DIRECTION OR A job that YOU FELT EXCITED ABOUT? OR graduate school on the horizon? ARE YOU THE ONE WHO didn’t get your act together?

maybe you just don’t really like anything enough. EVERYONE hAS A PASSION OR dream. MAYBE YOU’RE STILL LIVING off your parents or even living with your parents.

MAYBE YOU’RE JUST making ends meet right NOW. MAYBE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE JUST MAKING YOURSELF GO THROUGH THE MOTIONS RIGHT NOW. YOU’RE JUST HANGING IN THERE RIGHT NOW.

i’ve listed a lot of THOUGHTS. KNOW THAT FEELING any of these is far more common than you might ever guess.

you will find joy and Direction and purpose — RIGHT within yourselF — i will guide you.

The Roadblocks and Blindspots:

Perhaps you have something in your path.

That something is in the way of your happiness.

Maybe some of these things will resonate:

Quite SIMPLY A PERSON OR AN EVENT HAS A HOLD OVER YOU. THINK OF IT AS something obstructing your path OR a DETOUR.

For example, you ruminate, sHOULD I stay, or should I go? Are you stuck in a marriage that you love but hate? you just can’t figure it out? IS IT PERFECT ON THE OUTSIDE OR does it JUST SEEMS GOOD ENOUGH? OR DO YOU MAKE IT GOOD ENOUGH FOR THE KIDS?

Or perhaps YOU pine away for someone? Are YOU in love with someone but not dating them? you met them or know them but it never came to be and it haunts you?

perhaps you CANNOT MOVE PAST A RELATIONSHIP. A FRIEND WHO “DUMPED YOU” OR HURT YOU somehow. SOMEONE CLOSE WHO BROKE YOUR TRUST in some way. SOMEONE whom YOU LOVED, who was everything to you — THE best thing there ever was — AND then it ended — WHETHER A slow end OR a sudden and unexpected break, THE RELATIONSHIP lingers unpleasantly.

DID YOU LOSE SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU -- A PARENT, A SPOUSE, A CHILD? Did you lose a job? Lose a home? Lose something?

Do You ruminate about aND PINE away fOR MOMENTS, feelings, AND even smells — YOU'VE DEVELOPED DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS THAT YOU KNOW AREN'T HEALTHY, BUT IN SOME WEIRD WAY, THEY COMFORT you?

OVER A LIFETIME, WE ALL EXPERIENCE loss and heartbreak and disappointment. At times, We deePly question ourselves and others.

But sOME experiences get under our skin.

And SOME people experience these things TO a much more powerful degree. People fall in and out of love differeNt, move on differently from relationships, grieve differenTLY, even experience sensation differenTtly.

our personality “PREFERENCES,” combined with THE specifics of the situation, make a big difference in how we recover from A twist in the road or a great setback.

You were TOLD you that you wOULD feel better with time — AND perhaps you do.

BUT what I can assure you, is that understanding yourself and how you uniquely process difficult situations, will Empower yOu. you will heal more quickly on your own — tHIS time and next.

you will find joy and Direction and purpose — RIGHT within yourselF.